Friday, April 6, 2012

About this Book (blog)


This is the second part of a book I wrote titled, Nothing Less Than Love.  I continued to explore different relationships, but I also tried to dig deeper into how we interact “with all” that surrounds us.  I hoped to express my perspective on society, art, media, film, and America and use it to incorporate inspiring and entertaining stories.  Each real life experience exposes the essence of why LOVE is needed for any relationship to survive and grow.    
note: Dedication, Acknowledgments & Preface are in Part I

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

With PEACE - Nothing Less than Love


The choice of happiness or unhappiness is like a choice between ease or disease or lastly one of peace or _____.  I do not know the answer to that one, as I search for a word that resembles the opposite of peace.  Anyone out there want to take a shot at it?  _____.  It could possibly be “havoc,” “mayhem,” or “war.”  I am not sure there is a word, because all the words that even come close seem to be words of action.  Action is not a feeling.  Peace is a natural feeling.  If one opposes peace, their behaviors go against nature with unmerciful actions that are beneath the feeling of love.  Being below love is being in an environment where suffering grows wild.  This is why all of our actions and feelings should be ones of nothing less than love.


With FEAR - Seeds, Weeds, and Needs


      Many think that the opposite of love is hate, although this can be true.  I often have to disagree, because fear seems to be the root of hate.  Fear is the seed that manifested hate.  Hate is the weed visible above ground.  Fear is the root below.  Weeds have the power to destroy miles of fertile ground.  So, where does love stand in this analogy? Love can be the one thing that changes our perceptions of these weeds.  If we only see them as weeds, then this is how they will remain and continue until they are destroyed.  Yet, if we can see the damage of the roots, then we have the possibility to repair or replace them so they can become the most beautiful flowers. 

Motivation Masters


If one gets on the train here in New York City, there are constant announcements from the police department about protecting yourself and your belongings at all times. “If you see something, say something. Be on the look out at all times.” Sure, the motivation is to create a safer environment to live in, but if we cannot use our vision to see this message as one of security rather than fear, then we may carry this fearful energy with us throughout our entire day. I think of the times when I have carried fear with me throughout my days, and I look back and can see that perhaps I closed myself off to other more positive forces of energy that may have come my way.  Are we available to give and receive love from those who are naturally meant to come your way, instead of those who can be scared away?

          I feel the motivation of fear now seems to surround us daily.  The media and government are masters of using fear as motivation.  Fear has found a place into our economy and army, both domestically and intentionally.  What is looked upon as a normal, natural occurrence is used to get us to feel that something is missing internally; therefore, something is needed “now” to fulfill this void.  This idea is used by the media to persuade people to buy products and services that they do not need, especially “now.”  The idea is used by the government with a less than healthy motivation to get people to take unnecessary actions.  So if they can get people to believe that something is missing, then they have grabbed our attentions and occupied our minds to replay these messages over and over.  Before we know it, they will make a quick move to distract some person in a different direction to create yet another false need, as opposed to getting people to stay with the original root of their insecurities.  It is hard to find the media or government telling us that there is only one place to find security.  This place is in us and is our intuition.  It is hard to find media outlets and even harder to find the government motivating us by ways of love and faith. Why not?  Because love is a harder sell and fear seems to have a better financial track record.  Why is this? It’s because love only creates one need which is love and, at the very most, more love, whereas fear creates a million-plus needs that generate a million-plus dollars.
          Do our media and government overlook what is truly “needed?” Why do they continue to interrupt our progress through distractions? I feel what is “needed” is overlooked, and this is a well-rounded education for our youth and for healthy, balanced lifestyles for adults. The concentration is on making money as opposed to making healthy minds, thus making for a functioning, healthy society. Each choice takes time, but if this time goes towards only generating profits, there will be more and more work until we reach a system where people’s minds and bodies are so overworked and exhausted that their efficiency in life becomes diminished. As a result, there are a number of people doing a number of unneeded tasks, pulling them away from the things they should be naturally doing.
          It is easy for me to point the finger at media, government, and even corporations because so many take full advantage of their audiences, consumers, citizens, and employees. It is our responsibility, being motivated by our natural, loving spirit, to take action rather than constantly fulfill the wishes of the few who feel as if they do not have enough.  Then some impose their thoughts of “not having enough” on the masses so they are not alone in their fixations and mentalities.
          Ironically, these “employers” try to instill a fear-based mentality into their employees. We do not always have the accuracy in our vision to see what is truly occurring in front of our eyes.  This is when the accuracy of our vision should be used, and hopefully, it will lead you to the right questions.  Who and what are you working for? These answers can lead you to the truth, and with self-reflection, you can determine who you want to work for, what to work for, and what you truly want and need in your life minus what is constantly being sold to you. Lastly, and most importantly, it will help you to ask who you are helping and what team you’re playing for. So, if you’re pleased with all of your answers, then you should keep doing what you’re doing. But if not, you should start thinking about a change.
A Quick Recipe for Change:
Take one part inspiration, one part education,
and one part motivation.
Mix this together in a clean bowl (like a mind),
and we can have infinite creations.

Recycle


         As I became sharper and able to “keep the love,” my next step was to find the proper place for the waste.  In this case, it was the fear.  I have seen many people who do not know where to put their fears, so they carelessly give them to someone else. Then there are others who do not even give it away; they try to sell it.  I was determined not to be like these people because I saw the karmic currency for their sales – a bank account of poor choices resulting in suffering.  So, where is the right place to put this waste?  This sounds like the same garbage dilemma that our planet is faced with today. The answers of environmentalists are the same as mine – recycle.  Well, the same can be said for the waste of fear, hate, jealously, envy, greed, and so on.  Recycle!  Recycle the waste of fear into love.
          Unknowingly, this concept is what led me to become an artist.  Art is no more than recycled waste transformed into some of the most beautiful, engaging, entertaining, and stimulating things in this world.  It comes down to what we can transform.  I feel the less art we have in this world, the more fear, pain, anger, jealously, greed, and so on that we will have.  Our media industries try so hard to be artists, but unfortunately, many of them have factories of fear to sell.  Love has become such a challenge to sell because our factories have fewer products to produce.  It is our duty to change how things are manufactured from these machines and fear factories so we can have a back stock of love to be the abundant commodity in our society.

With ART - Labor or Love


At times, I have been motivated to act by way of fear, and I later realized that this is a delicate and dangerous thing.  The motivation of fear started with the feeling that my freedom was at stake.  Yes, at times, this fear jump-started me on to change, but it was important that the energy I gave off as result of this fear was something other than fear, like love.  The transformation of fear to love needed thoughtful, disciplined, and focused effort, because fear can cause insecurity.  Love is the most secure thing.  Today, I find it is an easier motivation to change when the transformation is from love to love because, actually, there is no transformation to be made.  Love is what is inside of us, and love is what I should be exuding from my presence, a loving motivation versus a fearful one.  Yes, for myself, I have accomplished things when fear was the motivating factor, although the main difference came in the enjoyment of the process.  When motivated by fear, I often labored through the process.  The outcome may have stimulated others, but throughout the process of “making it happen,” it felt like hard work, a painstaking task, a feeling of labor rather than love.  On the other hand, when I found myself motivated by love, I found the process to be effortless, as I embraced the joy in each ounce of labor.

We Are All Artists


I have always believed that art and love have the power to increase the flow of oxygen throughout our bodies.  The other day I spoke to some doctors and nurses in the oncology department of the hospital where I volunteer. I inquired if it is possible for a cancer cell to live in an environment that is solely of oxygen.  They told me that a cancer cell could not survive.  So I thought, “If art and love have the power to increase the flow of oxygen, then with art and love, there might be more environments in our bodies where cancer cells can’t survive.”
         

I feel we are all artists, yet most of us do not act when it comes time to transform our energy. Or, sometimes, we do not know how to act or express ourselves, so we act in ways that only build more negative energy versus transforming. Artists transform energy and create something new with their energy.  Good artists create something that exercises another person’s ability to look at things differently.  The great ones create something not only to help others to look at things differently but also to help others feel differently and ultimately act differently with a positive motivation to change.